TIME FOR A LITTLE ROLE PLAYING
One of the most impactful things I have ever done for myself is creating a “who do I need to be” list.
I now have nearly all of my clients do the same exercise.
When they say they have goals that involve a certain level of success with money, business, health, or relationships, I don’t ask them to create a detailed 5-year plan to make that fantasy into a reality.
Instead, we slow down, and I ask them, “Who would you need to be for those things to happen?”
The BEING must come before the DOING…
For example, on my own list, there is nothing about how much money I will make, how many talks or trainings I deliver, how many books I sell, how many vacations I take, or how much body fat I have.
Instead, it has characteristics of my BEING such as…
Enthusiastic (my #1 core state of BEING that makes everything else “work” better), relaxed, unattached to outcomes, grateful, joyful, courageous and playful.
I know that when I embody those qualities, which are always present, though I don’t always consciously choose them, it exponentially increases the effectiveness of any tasks, plans, projects, or strategies I decide to execute.
What would BE on your list? What are your top 3 states of BEING that you know would have an exponentially positive effect on your DOING?
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